Who is ursula?
another girl?
thomas' girlfriend from high school. they talked about her in ukrainian documentary about thomas "moya prava"
I believe that some of these versions he said must be the one he had with Melanie/ingrid. (For some reason I can't imagine her as someone bad but rather as another deluded person? Maybe Anders/Sanders isn't a coincidence, but that's just my delirium)
I dont know.. maybe Thomas teenage years were "active" or maybe the stories are fake... "Stefanie" was also older. now this Brenda which nobody knows appears also older, they met at a vacation and he was 17 and virgin. maybe they invented stories with "old women" bcz Nora and her siblibgs were old women just to say he "liked old".
Bro, looking at Thomas in 1981 I don't believe he would hold someone's hand or look them in the eye, much less "that". He would say it's wrong and tell his parents.
as i said they could invent stories or tell him to rewrite situations as he did with "Stefanie". thomas's upbringing wouldnt allow him to date "older" women just to lose his virginity. and as we know, he was very, very shy.